Unapologetically Autistic

  The last few weeks have been difficult. I don’t think that as an Autistic individual, we talk about how limited our energy can be at times. Many factors contribute to this: family life, life in general. I can get overwhelmed easily. I have great focus sometimes, but it’s on one thing that is often what my mind chooses vs what I choose, if that makes sense.    Recently, with everything going on in the world and dealing with normal family life as a father, I have become overwhelmed. In this state, the energy is sucked out of you. It’s like you are on cruise control; you can do what is needed, but outside of that, there is no energy. Nothing left for creativity or fun. I find myself in this state more than I would like these days. As a content creator, it makes it challenging to produce content during these times. Some of my friends recommended that I use this opportunity to write about. It’s difficult to be open sometimes, but I remind myself that maybe someone else readi...

When I found out I was Autistic a year and a half ago, my entire world changed. Suddenly, I had more questions than answers—enough to make my head spin. Since then, I’ve been slowly finding those answers, one by one. Even before my diagnosis, TikTok had already started showing me content from Autistic creators. Because of that, I was familiar with the idea of unmasking. My therapist also guided me through the process, offering insight and support. But it was one of the most difficult times in my life. I was struggling to work, feeling desperate for help, and decided to try Teledoc. That’s where I met my therapist—someone who listens, challenges me to grow, and celebrates my successes. In many ways, she has become like a mother to me. I wouldn’t be where I am today without her, and I’ll always be grateful for the impact she’s had on my life. I started unmasking right away. At first, it was painful—going all the way back through my childhood, questioning everything. Were my interests, ha...

  I am just a man with a phone and a dream. I never realized the impact I could make on the world with just a phone. Technology has given us the ability to connect with one another across the globe. It also gives us a voice. For most of my life, I watched and learned but never spoke up. My thoughts stayed trapped-in my head and I lacked the courage and know-how to make any kind of impact. Then one day, I decided to see if I could change that. Telling my story was frightening at first. To put personal details of things only a few people knew about out there for the world to see felt overwhelming. But now, I am. proud of myself for taking that first step, and the next, and the next. Now, I am launching my blog, expanding to more social media platforms, and building a community for people like me- for everyone who’s neurodivergent. The world seems to be getting colder, and I know that what I need, others need too: a sense of community. And that leads me to my dream. I dream ...

It came to me like a bolt of lightning one late night while watching TikTok. I had been watching the platform for years, but on one fateful night, I was inspired. What started as just an idea soon led to weeks and months of doubt and worry. But about a month ago, I decided it was time to use my voice and my life experiences for good. I could no longer remain silent. I was diagnosed with Autism a year and a half ago, and since then, my whole life has been torn apart and put back together. This process is called unmasking, and it’s what truly brought me a sense of who I am. I have spent my life struggling to answer one question: Who am I? For too long, I have been shaped by others expectations. Now, I have the chance to break free and make my own decisions. Turns out, I am a happy-go-lucky person with a big heart for helping others. Thats what brings us to this moment in time. I am starting this blog to connect with others, spark conversations, and advocate for Autistic people and all ne...